MINDSET MASTERY
The Foundation for a Longer, Happier Life
CLAUDIA VON BOESELAGER
2025
When you think of living your best life today and for as long as possible, you might not immediately consider that it all starts with mindset.
I know I didn’t. I used to focus on all the biohacks and optimization strategies, only to realize that true growth and change happened when my self-talk—that little voice inside—shifted from self-criticism to self-encouragement.
You can optimize your body all you want, but if your mindset isn’t one of growth and positivity, you will only get so far. The first and essential step to living your best life for longer is mastering your mindset—the transformative power of your thoughts and beliefs.
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As someone deeply passionate about personal development, raising consciousness, and biohacking, I've discovered that mastering your mindset is not just a tool for success but a necessity for living your best life. Here are some steps and insights to help you on this journey:
Step 1: Be the Gatekeeper of Your Mind
At any moment, you have the power to choose your focus. Will you dwell on negative, anxiety-inducing thoughts, or will you elevate your mind to focus on your passions, goals, and what you love? The choice is yours. By regularly checking in with yourself and consciously shifting your focus, you become the gatekeeper of your mind. Decide today what you will focus on and start creating the life you desire.
Step 2: Change Your Language To “Get To’s”
A simple yet powerful tool is to replace "have to" with "get to" in your daily language. This subtle shift transforms obligations into opportunities. Instead of saying, "I have to get up, I have to go to work, I have to pick-up my kids, etc.," try "I get to get up, I get to go to work, I get to pick-up my kids." This change in language fosters gratitude and positivity, turning daily tasks into privileges.
Claudia von Boeselager
Mindset Mastery
Step 3: Be the Thermostat, Not the Thermometer In Your Life
Your mindset shapes every aspect of your life. It is your set of beliefs, attitudes, and values. The beauty is that YOU have the power to decide who you want to be and how you react to external situations. Define your "thermostat"—the kind of person you want to be regardless of daily challenges. Yes, the challenges will always come, but how you decide to react to them is up to you. Write down your definition of your “thermostat” - that person you want to be no matter what, review the list each morning, and set regular check-ins to remind yourself of your champion mindset goals.
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Step 4: Practice Gratitude
Gratitude is a beautiful and truly powerful catalyst for mindset mastery. As the quote goes, “when you can be grateful for the little things, the things to be grateful for expand.” I’ve found this to be so true. Reflect on what you may have taken for granted and start appreciating the small joys in life. This practice not only shifts your focus but also attracts more positivity into your life and raises your vibration.
Step 5: Prioritize Self-Love
Do you spend more time criticizing yourself than being kind? Practicing self-love, compassion, and being your biggest cheerleader is crucial - no matter how big or small the win. You need to fill up your own cup first so you can give to others from the overflow. You can't pour from an empty cup. Plan self-love rituals each week to remind yourself of your worth and brilliance. This was a hard lesson I had to learn, but so worth it!
Claudia von Boeselager
Longevity and Lifestyle
Mindset and Neural Pathways
Neurons that fire together wire together. Just like building a muscle, the more you practice positive mindset mastery, the easier it becomes. By consistently choosing positive thoughts over negative ones, you can rewire your neural pathways. This shift transforms your mindset journey from navigating an overgrown jungle path to cruising on a superhighway. The more you choose positive thoughts, the more they become your default pathway, leading to a naturally positive and empowered mindset.
Conclusion
Mastering your mindset is a journey, not a destination. It requires conscious effort, self-reflection, and a willingness to grow. By implementing these strategies, you can cultivate a mindset that supports your highest potential and enriches your life.
Remember, you have one precious life—let's make it extraordinary!
Contributor: Claudia von Boeselager, Serial Entrepreneur, Podcast Host, Longevity & Lifestyle Coach, Biohacker (with a biological age of 26), and mother of 2. Follow @longevityandlifestyle